Having Natural Hair = No Braids or Weaves?!

It's funny how in the last 4 weeks since I've had braids, I've had mixed reactions from people who haven't seen me rock braids since I went natural.  A number of people actually stop me, call me or send me messages asking me why I have braids on if I'm supposed to be natural??

I was mystified the first time it happened actually - I mean is there a memo somewhere that I missed?




I say this because a number of them actually spoke with forceful authority as to how I have no business with extensions in my hair since I'm supposed to be 'natural' lolllll

I've come to take it in my stride or laugh it off when I'm not in the mood to explain but when I am, all I say is , braids and weaves are a form of 'protective styling' that can be worn by anyone whether natural, relaxed or transitioning. They help you retain length as you don't have to worry about daily styling manipulation.

Sometimes they way I'm asked is akin to my being accused of betraying a trust/code or something - mind you, most times these questions are from non natural peeps so it makes me wonder how they came about their own interpretations of what it means to have natural hair.


I know there are people out there who don't just have natural hair but have embraced a TOTAL natural way of life - which includes the elimination of synthetic ingredients/ preservatives from diet, toiletries and hair products. Most times these changes stem from health issues or a re orientation of mind and the desire to live as holistically as possible.

I had a health issue a few years ago that has seen me eliminate a number of things from my diet and stuff I use on my skin. I try to eat as healthy as I can - but these are all personal choices based on health issues.

Heck, wearing your hair natural is a personal choice and so is the decision to use extensions or not. Abi? I'm just curious sha - so if anyone can explain these ideas to me and where they may have stemmed from, I might understand it better.

xoxoxo